It's the little things, a gentle touch, a calm kiss, him just grabbing your hand and holding it, and don't get me started on the cuddling... those small details are the ones that really, really let you know... how much in love you really are. For me, holding hands can, and has had as much, effect on my emotions as a kiss. I'm a romantic, can't help myself.
Remember the chocolate guy ? It all started because he didn't mind holding my hand in public. It may sound (it totally is) pathetic, but living in a small town has had it's effects, and finding a guy willing to hold my hand while walking in a park, a hell of a highlight in my life. A straight guy, small detail I didn't want to understand until he started dating a really good girl-friend of mine.
People have always told me that I'm a really loud fag, and that I don't care about what other "normal" people think. Which is totally true, I don't give a flying fuck what people think about who I am as a sexual being; but that doesn't mean I'm having hot-n-steamy gay sex in public, (not that I wouldn't want some hot-n-steamy gay sex, mind you) it means that if I want to hold hands with the guy I love, I will freaking do it no matter who is watching. That's all I ask, you know? I don't find it fair that every time I go out I see at least 2 or 3 straight couples almost having sex in a park (in broad daylight, no less), but two guys holding hands ? NO FREAKING WAY, the outrage! The shame!
WTF?
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Sorry for the grammar, I am trying my best here :P
I agree with you. People should understand that everyone has a life that must be lived to the fullest (while you don't hurt others of course). A lot of factors have influence over the sexuality of a kid (the parents roles, the environment, genetics)... I don't think that seeing a couple holding hands has a real impact over it.
I think it's more dangerous watching a horny couple in the park almost having sex in public places and trying to pass that off as love...(Kids get the wrong idea of such a thing)
Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual (or even asexual :P ) ... that is truly irrelevant:
Our ideas and our feelings are what make us humans.
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